As December looms and with Halloween firmly behind us, there is only one word coming out of everyone lips, Christmas. I still think it is a bit soon but needs must. The cake must be baked, the presents bought and the cards written. (Before I go on, if you haven't started yet, I want to congratulate you for not thinking about Christmas before December and then I want to say when December does present itself… RELAX! And actually that goes for everyone - just RELAX when it comes to all issues surrounding Christmas, it really doesn't matter) There is a lot of anguish that surrounds Christmas card writing and I want to put a few things straight. Firstly and I think most importantly, you don’t actually have to send them to everyone you’ve ever met. You don't actually have to send them at all (and despite the picture above, it is not the sole responsibility/duty of the women/wife).