When I was in my twenties and living in Reading, every Monday to Friday was taken up with going to work, going to the gym and going out in the evening. Saturdays were for shopping and going to the pub, and Sundays were for lie-ins and pints of Guinness once the hangover had disappeared.
This remained largely unchanged until Mr K and I moved to a village where going shopping requires either a car journey, playing 'bus roulette' with the six that run each day or a £50 round trip in a taxi, and 'going to the pub' is quite literally that - you go to the pub, the only one in the village. Sundays remained intact - winner! The rhythm of our lives was set by where we had to be (work) and where we wanted to be (pub).
Then our daughter was born which introduced us to a new rhythm dictated mostly by her need to feed. A perfect bundle of limbs and lovely smelling skin that took our self-indulgent Saturday nights out and Sunday lie-ins and drop-kicked them out of the window. Our lives no longer had the easy vibe of mellow soul music, they had