There's a part of me that rebels against this, and as I have mentioned in my previous post Monkey plays with all sorts of toys, girly or otherwise. His bedroom is yellow. We don't want to stereotype him. BUT we dress him in trousers and not skirts. Some of his clothes have dinosaurs or trucks on them because that is what is sold as 'boy' clothing. If we have a little girl I'm sure she'll wear a lot of his hand me downs (to save money) but no doubt she will have some prettier things too.
There was an article not too long ago about parents who dressed a little boy in a Tutu and said they were trying to raise him as 'gender neutral.' Part of me thinks 'good for you' while another part of me feels sorry for the little boy, because is it really possible to raise your child in a gender neutral way, when the society we live in is not gender neutral? Is it fair on them to expose them to potential ridicule by parts of society rather than to protect them from it?