Oh I'm so confused. In my party girl days, I never refused an invitation. I would always be with friends, I was young, reasonably happy about my looks, lazy about grooming by today's standards, but no-one seemed to mind. I just wanted to have fun. Getting ready meant a quick shower, some hair gel, deodorant, black eye liner plus a little short dress and high heels and 30 minutes later I was out the door.
That was then :)
It's not like that now.
I do still want to have fun.
But it's much more complicated.