Some time ago I mentioned that Adam shares the bed with us (click). After reading countless forums and blogs, seeing how other parents make their babies sleep in their own cots from the beginning, I wanted to do the same, but then we gave up. I mean I tried, but then winter came, our house is not exactly the warmest place, and whenever Adam woke up at night his tiny hands felt like ice cubes. No matter how well he would be covered, as soon as his hands came out of the blanket, that's it. Then we both felt guilty, that while we're happily snuggled in our bed, with big thick duvet, our poor little baby is freezing. So we would put him to sleep in his cot, then he would wake up after few hours, we would find he seems to be cold, and he ended up sleeping between us. Slowly we just gave up putting him in a cot altogether, just have him in the middle of our bed straight away.