I do like a candle. Or two. Who doesn't? Although I do think it's a female thing, it's definitely something MOH doesn't get. A bit like cushions. And wrapping paper. MOH does know that a candle as a gift for me is a good thing, so that's something at least. He also knows that some shops wrap purchases putting them in a fancy bag which means they don't need any further wrapping. And these types of present are always welcome. I'm lucky that he's a quick learner.