Yep there are still issues here with aspergers. And I'm looking for advice, but without giving any details. Because I promised *sigh*.
I've done the teenage years. Twice. But clearly I was lucky. And I think that there is often a difficult dynamic between teenage boys and single mothers, whether or not aspergers or autism is involved. As soon as my marriage ended my son used to joke that he was the 'man of the house'. At age 5! Now he can say it with a bit more confidence. But I am still his parent, and I expect to have a lot more parenting to do before he officially becomes an adult in 6 years time.