'Can I have Facebook?' he says. 'No.' 'Why?' 'Because you're not 13.' 'But everyone else has it, it's not FAIR.' I could relax the rules and let him have it. I know there are plenty of 12 year olds who have Facebook. Not to mention 11 year old and 9 year olds. But this is my 12 year old. He's my son and I make the rules.